HUSTLE DANCE CLUB NEWS Ava Apple's Dance Etiquette: 10 STEPS TO SOCIAL SAVVY ON THE DANCE FLOOR Take a glimpse into a local dance club on any night and you'll see many confident people moving in perfect time with their partners. A beginner might feel intimidated asking someone to dance-what if I look clumsy? What if my partner gets bored dancing with me? But newcomers should realize that seasoned regulars also experience doubt occasionally. Jan S. looks self-assured on the floor, but she admits to feeling nervous when paired with a more advanced dancer. She said I'm embarrassed if my partner is much better than I am and wants to do all these hard moves. I feel I should get out of his way. Other people become unnerved by partners who forget their deodorant, or by aggressive types who seem to sprout extra hands that are a little too exploratory. After talking to a variety of dancers, one realizes that certain awkward situations are universal for beginners, advanced dancers, and people in-between. What do you do with a partner who is completely off the beat? Or with one who seems unaware that you're bumping off other couples like a pinball? Professional dancer and instructor Ava Apple is sympathetic to these complaints. She has taught dance in the Bay Area for 10 years, Has competed in Hustle competitions and currently competes in Latin dance competitions, and keeps up with the local dance scene at the clubs. She believes that tension caused by awkward situations could be eased with the help of some guidelines. She said , "Sometimes a person is unaware that he or she is making the other person uncomfortable. The other person doesn't know what to do and just suffers silently until the song is over. After constantly being asked the same questions by students and friends, Ava has compiled a list of tips to help people enjoy their evenings with a minimum of stress. She cautioned that these guidelines are not set in stone: "The important idea is to always use your best judgment and have fun." (1). Always carry breath mints. When Ava takes her students out dancing, she earns everyone's appreciation by talking along extra mints. "People forget how close they actually get to their partners ". (2). Don't feel self-conscious about people watching you. Remember: It's fairly dark at clubs, and people may not even be looking at you. They may just be scanning the rest of the club for a dance partner. (3). Don't try lifts or fancy dips, save these for performances, contests, etc. Copying the professionals will only get you in trouble. Ava recalls the time a dance partner attempted a fancy move at a night club: "He suddenly swooped me off the ground, spun me around, and I kicked another girl on the side of her head. " To avoid future concussions, keep your partner's feet on the floor. (4). Take extra care to watch for "traffic." Ava noted, "Some men don't watch where they're leading. I've stepped on a lot of feet and bumped into people because my partner wasn't paying attention. Try to tone down your dance style when the floor gets crowded. And ladies, if you feel your shelf about to step on someone's feet, try to lighten your step to soften the blow." (5). My partner is all hands. How can I stop him from groping me? Stop dancing and walk off the dance floor. (6). Don't try to teach your partner on the dance floor unless he or she asks for directions. If your partner doesn't follow a particular pattern, try it again. But don't stop and give her directions without her consent!! Followers, only correct a partner if they ask. Leading well, is hard to do, be patient. (7). Don't act irritated if your partner is at a lower skill level. The point is to enjoy dancing, not make your partner feel inadequate. (8). Say "no" gracefully. If you don't want to dance when someone asks, say "No, thank you" politely. If you like, add "maybe later." But don't refuse so you can play hard-to-get. Men, don't be pushy. If they seem friendly, ask again later. (9). The best dancers don't drink alcohol. Some dance steps are difficult enough to perform when you're sober. Don't complicate matters by filling up on daiquiris before stepping onto the floor. (10). Thank your partner after dancing. Unless the experience was very unpleasant, i.e., he or she was drunk or aggressive, show some courtesy. (Submitted by: Ava Apple) Thank You Ava for your contribution. I must admit, I still see a number of people who do not quite get it. Social dancing should be fun and therapeutic, a time to enjoy your friends and new acquaintances. HUSTLE DANCING: TUESDAY NIGHTS at Grand Palace Restaurant 711 Town & Country Village Sunnyvale, CA 408-733-7466 D.J.: John Schlicht (Hustle, WCS, Two Step, Salsa) lessons: 8-9pm w/ Bobby Concepcion & Raul Ante Dancing: 9-midnight $3.00 cover charge THURSDAY NIGHT at Caribbean Gardens Restaurant (Hyatt Cinema) 1306 Old Bayshore Hwy. Burlingame, CA 415-347-9007 Music: Hustle, Cha-Cha, Salsa, Merengue Lessons: 8:00-9:15pm w/ Ylva Wintzell Dancing: 9:15-1am $4.00 cover, $3.00 for Hustle Dance Club Members ( show membership card for discount ) FRIDAY NIGHTS (2ND AND 4TH FRIDAYS OF THE MONTH) at: Metronome Ballroom 1830 17th st. at De Haro S.F., CA 415-252-9000 Lessons: David Weise, Sherri Paregian 7:30-9pm Dancing 9-12 midnight Hustle, Swing, Salsa $10.00 lesson & party, $8.00 party only SUNDAY EVENINGS (EVERY 2ND SUNDAY OF THE MONTH) at: University YWCA 2600 Bancroft Way Berkeley, CA info 415-681-8140 Dancing: 5pm-8pm Salsa, Merengue and Hustle Host: Ava Apple SUNDAY EVENINGS at: Avenue Ballroom Taravell & 16th Ave S.F., CA info 415-681-2882 Night Club Two Step, Swing, Salsa, Hustle Instructor: Phil Seyer HUSTLE WORKSHOPS: Sunday, Sept. 10th with Michele Kinkaid Imperial Dance Studio 822 Cassia St. Redwood City, Ca info 415-585-6282 Workshop 4-5:30pm ( Hustle ) Dance: 6-11pm West Coast Swing Saturday, Nov. 11th with Debra Hampton, Dave Sarul HUSTLE DANCE CLUB Pavilion 4000 Middlefield Rd Mt. View, CA info 415-467-8830 intermediate 1-2:30pm, int/adv 3-4:30pm Sunday, Dec. 3rd with Michael Keihm Santa Cruz Swing Club info 408-475-6515 Beth Bellamy PROFESSIONAL HUSTLE DANCE INSTRUCTORS: Ava Apple 415-681-8140 S.F. & East Bay Marge Gabbert 415-334-9914 S.F. Area Robin Rebello 415-856-9930 Mid Peninsula & S.J. Les Robinson 408-371-5083 San Jose Area Ylva Wintzell 415-583-6507 S.F.& Peninsula Debra Hampton 213-653-7088 L.A. Area (Hustle USA) Dave Sarul 213-653-7088 L.A. Area (Hustle USA) Ceasar Ricaurte 714-837-0440 L.A. Area Maria Torres 718-802-1999 New York Kenny Gonzalez 718-518-0210 New York Aerials Only DANCE CHAMPIONSHIP: Oct. 14th & 15th, 1995 Hustle USA Dance Championships at: Inn on 57th St., 440 W. 57th ST., New York, N.Y. info 1-800-924-8785 or 415-467-8830 DANCE SUPPLIES: Ballroom Dance Supply 372 Bird Ave ( exit Bird Ave. off 280 ) San Jose, Ca 95126 408-293-1727 Bill Rowe A Keen Dance Shoe Supplier Metronome Ballroom 1830-17th St. @ De Haro S. 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Times) 408-366-1733 Club Members: (117) Bonnie Adams, Virgina Adams, Steve Ahl, Amy Aldrich, Gary Anderson, Karen Anderson, Earl Ante, Raul Ante, Ava Apple, Rita Arbour, Toni Barajas, Lee Beer, Beth Bellamy, Michael Beniston, Janada Berghouse, Sixto Bernal, Jerry Biefeldt, James Bower, Wayne Burdett, Kris Carlsen, Cynthia Chaddick, Leticia Chand, Larry Chao, Wing Cheng, Myoung Choi, Michael Cohen, Sheri Cook, Bobby Concepcion, Linda Curry, Aldena Duval, Cathy Econom, Ted Eisenstadt, Stefanie Elkin, Michael Everest, Ann Felldin, Esther Feuerstein, John Frazer, Sarah French, Marge Gabbert, Steve Gavazza, Peter Giricz, Jonathan & Elenita Goco, Carl Hage, Gayle Hand, Richard Hanson, Gregory Harrison, Patricia Hastings, Diane Hayes, Gary Helfort, Edward Herman, Judy Hogan, Samuel Howard, Tulsa Jarvis, Pamela Jawish, Carolyn Jones, Ed Johnson, Nancy Kattner, Ann Keen, Deepak Khiani, Michelle Kinkaid, Hayes Kolb, Patricia Kopache, Jay Larrick, Rick Lasslo, Theresa Ledet, Donna Lee, Vincent Lefferts, Susan Lin, Valerie Lisiewicz, Janet Littlefield, George & Vera Loskutoff, Michael Marangio, Tess Martillano, Lilianna Martinez, Dennis Mc Affee, Marc Mc Govern, Robert Mirolo, Bill Mitchell, Erich Mitsch, Barbara Morris, Steve Nguyen, Laurie Nielsen, Mickey Pawlick, Eric Pearson, Alex Pepple, Adele Poenisch, Lawrence Profant, Kathleen Quinlan, Alain Quinto, Eric Raeber, Alex Rawls, Robin Rebello, Peggy & James Religa, Ginny & Les Robinson, Bill Rowe, Mario Rulloda, Lilly Santos, Philip Seyer, Philip Sienna, Deborah Simon, Gail Stevens, Cruz Summera, Gary Tom, Lin Ure, Hue Vu, Carlos Waleski, Douglas Wardian, Ylva Wintzell, Carol Wlock, Talma Wong-Stein, Jianpo Xie, Jeffery Yee, Virgina Ynegas. Special Notes: Some of our club members have decided to move to different parts of the country, Bonnie Adams wanted a better tan so she moved to Hawaii, Richard Hanson now resides in the mile high state of Colorado, Nancy Kattner loves the sound of Ducks and move to Oregon, Theresa Ledet has moved to the land of gumbo and Dixie land jazz, Louisiana, we wish them well in their new surroundings. We have another member who has moved to another part of the state, Amy Aldrich, I hope you are doing well also. I would also like to welcome one of our newest members also from Hawaii Judy Hogan. As most of you know our memberships cover a wide area from Sacramento to Santa Cruz-Salinas area. We are also receiving inquires from the Los Angles Area and other States, Washington and Oregon. Hustle Dancing is getting bigger and better thanks to all of your efforts. Keep Dancing!! (If you have moved or are planning to move please let us know so we may update our records) HUSTLE DANCE CLUB: President............. Raul Ante Vice President........ Ginny Robinson Treasurer/ Secretary.. Aldena Duval News Letter........... Raul Ante, Ava Apple, Carolyn Jones, Ginny Robinson, Les Robinson Internet.............. Michael Cohen, Ginny Robinson Guest Services........ Bobby Concepcion Event Coordinator..... Jay Larrick, Robin Rebello, Cathy Econom Event Volunteers...... Stefanie Elkin, Dennis Mc Affee Sound Equipment....... Robin Rebello ( Friday Night Dancers ) Exhibition Dancing.... Ylva Wintzell, Bobby Concepcion, Raul Ante Ginny & Les Robinson, Cruz Summera, Ava Apple Mailing & Phone....... Hustle Dance Club, P.O. Box 945, Brisbane, 94005 415-467-8830