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Jamie joins our family AdoptionAfter several years of marriage with no children making an entrance into our lives, we decided in 1994 to begin pursuing adoption. It took about another year to receive approval from a nearby adoption agency for us to become prospective adoptive parents. In March of 1997, we got a call from our adoption agency saying we'd been selected by a couple for placement of their soon-to-be-born baby girl. The birth mother was 18 and the father 35. We met with the couple and our social worker a week later -- they liked us and we liked them. With both of them being carnival workers who traveled a lot, they felt the traveling carnival environment would not be the best place to raise a baby, so they had decided to place their child up for adoption.The Birth ParentsThe birth mom resembles my wife, Karen (even her height), and seemed quite mature for her age. The birth dad and I (Bill) seemed to share some tastes and interests (and he is my height, too). We invited them to visit our home so they could see our house and our neighborhood, and we could get to know each other a bit better. It was a very nice visit. They invited us to be present at the hospital in their home city for the delivery, and to take the baby home after the hospital stay. Needless to say, we were getting pretty excited. We then began making final preparations for the arrival -- any day -- of the baby.The Call |
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![]() The birth dad and mom, Bill, Jamie, & Karen, Christmas time, 1997. |
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![]() Our little family. |